Table of Contents for The New IQ:
How Integrity Intelligence
Serves
You, Your Relationships & Our World
I. Life in an Age of Lack of Integrity
Chapter 1. You Are a Three-Dimensional Self
“What does it take to feel truly authentic, lovable and like we make a difference?”
Chapter 2. The Price You and Others Pay When You Are Less Than Your 3D Self
“Is integrity merely a vague philosophical concept that no can actually define?”
Chapter 3. What Natural Developers Do That the Rest of Us Would Be Wise to Emulate
“Can I really learn to do intentionally what natural developers do intuitively?”
Chapter 4. Reverse Engineering the Secrets of Natural Developers So You Can Do What They Do
“What are the most valuable perspectives about how to live life that are revealed by looking at development with a rear view mirror?”
II. How Lack of Integrity Became So Commonplace
Chapter 5. Why We Fall Out of Integrity
“What causes us to sacrifice our authenticity and our sense of right and wrong?”
Chapter 6. How You Were a Childhood Genius
“What are the five universal survival strategies that we come to think of as ‘who I am?’”
Chapter 7. The Survival Plan in Action: Three Portraits
“How can I acquire some clues about my own hidden survival plan?”
Chapter 8. Discovering the Anatomy of Your Survival Plan
“How can I discover why my past is limiting my present without having to go through years of soul searching or psychotherapy?”
Chapter 9. How Our Childhood Survival Plan Morphs into Something That Compromises Our Integrity as Adults
“What prerequisites must I meet as an adult in order to feel lovable, worthy and safe?”
III. Demystifying the Rhythm of Adult Life
Chapter 10. The Four Zones That Rule Our Development as Adults
“Is there a predictable rhythm to my development that I should know about?”
Chapter 11. LifeZone #1: Wake-up Calls
“What is life’s way of inviting me into deeper integrity, fuller authenticity, more effective and fulfilling connection with others, and greater contributions to the world?”
Chapter 12. LifeZone #2: Survival Plan Attachment
“How do we deal with life until we know how to do what natural developers do?”
Chapter 13. LifeZone #3: Transformation Chapters
“Isn’t there an easier way to develop than by doing deep inner work on ourselves all the time?”
Chapter 14. LifeZone #4: Consolidation Periods
“Isn’t it normal to just want to take a break sometimes?”
IV. The Seven Key Life Skills Natural Developers Develop… and How You Can Develop Them Too
Chapter 15. Introducing the Seven WisePassions: The All-Purpose Life Skills
“Is there a single set of core life skills that personal, relationship, leadership and integrity development all depend upon?”
Chapter 16. WisePassion #1: Teachability
“Why do I need to respond to everything life throws at me with self-responsibility, humility and receptivity?”
Chapter 17. WisePassion #2: Self-Care
“How can I maintain the abundance of life energy I need for authenticity, connection, and service?”
Chapter 18. WisePassion #3: Discernment
“How can I become better at telling the difference between truth, partial-truths, and lies?”
Chapter 19. WisePassion #4: Harvesting
“How can I become really good at turning difficult life experiences into blessings rather than baggage?”
Chapter 20. WisePassion #5: Power
“How can I express my inner light, gifts, deepest truths, and creativity without self-censoring and holding back?”
Chapter 21. WisePassion #6: Synergy
“How can I learn to co-create more fulfilling, collaboration-based, productive, and resilient personal and work relationships than I ever thought possible?”
Chapter 22. WisePassion #7: Stewardship
“How can I become really good at discovering and fully serving the collective highest good?”
V. The Grand Upshift in Humanity and Your Role in Helping It Occur
Chapter 23. It’s In Every One of Us to Be Wise
“How can someone in my position make a meaningful difference in helping to create a new era of personal, relationship, collective, and leadership integrity?”
Appendices
Glossary
Self-Assessments and Exercises
Best Resources
Forming Your Own 3D Integrity Circle
Index
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Personal, relationship and leadership development all rely on the same life skills. There are natural developers and deliberate developers. Learn more about Natual and Deliberate Developers by clicking on button.
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- Teachability
- Self-Care
- Discernment
- Harvesting
- Power
- Synergy
- Stewardship
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