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Integrity Intelligence Free eCourse:
Introducing Dr. Gruder's Forthcoming Book, The New IQ

This special eCourse provides you with an introduction to integrity intelligence and a private sneak preview of Dr. Gruder's forthcoming book, The New IQ: How Integrity Intelligence Serves You, Your Relationships and Our World. The book will be released this coming January, 2008. Enroll in this free eCourse and you will automatically be notified the moment The New IQ becomes available as well as special private offers connected with the book's release.

  • In Lesson One you will be introduced to the biggest problem of the 21st century and how politicians, pundits and the public feed into it.
  • In Lesson Two you will explore how we culturally got into such a mess with integrity in the first place.
  • In Lesson Three you will learn how understanding our Three Core Drives provides a far more expanded and practical vision of integrity than you may have ever known.
  • In Lesson Four you will find out the secret to what causes us as individuals to sacrifice our authenticity and our sense of right and wrong.
  • In Lesson Five you will discover the basic building blocks for integrity and fulfillment: the Seven WisePassions of 3D Living.
  • In Lesson Six, you are offered The New IQ's vision of the Grand Upshift in Humanity that can usher in a new era of integrity.
  • In Lesson Seven, you will find out more about The New IQ: How Integrity Intelligence Serves You, Your Relationships and Our World and who this book is for.
  • In Lesson Eight, you will tour the Table of Contents for The New IQ.
  • You will also receive some follow-up bonus lessons.

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Flow of Life Free eCourse:
Secret Wisdom for Navigating Your Life Journey

This eCourse introduces you to an unusual version of "the facts of life" around which Dr. Gruder's book, The New IQ (to be released in January 2008), is built. No, this is not the "birds and the bees" version of the facts of life, but rather a version we all needed to hear as children, and as adults too, about the secrets to making sense of our life experiences. Through this eCourse you will become acquainted with the anatomy of our childhood Survival Plan and the adulthood LifeZones we repeatedly cycle through as adults.

  • In Lesson One you will be introduced to the Flow of Life roadmap and where it comes from.
  • In Lesson Two you will read a surprising and illuminating story about "the facts of life" that you may well have never before heard.
  • In Lesson Three you will learn more about your childhood Survival Plan and the purpose of Wakeup Calls in your adult life.
  • In Lesson Four you will explore the conceptual version of The Flow of Life that you read a metaphorical version of in Lesson Two.
  • And in Lesson Five you will discover a road map for personal, relationship and leadership development that can help you become a far more savvy consumer of personal, relationship and leadership development resources than ever before. If you are a helping professional, this road map can help you supercharge your ways of assisting those with whom you work.

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Boundaries Intelligence Essentials Free eCourse:
Your Foundation for Healthy Personal Power & Connection With Others

Click here (or scroll down) to register now for your Inner Critic Freedom eCourse!

Do any of these situations sound familiar to you?

  • Collaboration between Penelope and Jim is at an all-time low because compromising just doesn't seem to be getting them anywhere anymore.
  • George tries his best to be level-headed and kind with the people around him but he seems unable stop himself from blowing up periodically when he can no longer hold in his "real" reactions.
  • Gwen feels taken advantage of by others so much of the time that she feels resentful and drained.
  • Jack is depressed over how little impact or personal power he seems to have in both his personal and work life.
  • Jennifer has always been particularly sensitive to the energies around her and, as a result, cycles back and forth between two unpleasant experiences of feeling energetically invaded and drained, or being so walled off that she feels disconnected from those around her.

All these situations are examples of problems with boundaries. Being over-boundaried or under-boundaried is the secret source of conflict, codependence, anger problems, negotiation breakdowns, disempowerment, inauthenticity and many other self-esteem, integrity, problem-solving, teamwork and relationship difficulties!

Simply stated, a boundary is any limit I need to honor so I can love or work with you without resentment and with integrity. Boundaries are not confrontation devices, lines drawn in the sand, ultimatums or manipulation tools. Rather, they are essential skills for living authentically at the intersection of integrity, personal power and collaboration. And they are the most essential skills of all when it comes to anger prevention.

Dr. Gruder has taught Boundaries Intelligence to work supervisors and teams, the public, educators, parents, couples, therapy clients, and helping professionals for well over 15 years. As an expert in dealing with anger, he has seen the devastation that occurs when people do not have sufficient Emotional Intelligence (EQ) in this area. From his extensive experience teaching people how to effectively and compassionately honor their boundaries, he has developed a unique, exlusive and easily-learned method for developing Boundaries Intelligence: the NICE™ Boundaries method.

This free eCourse provides you with clarity and tools you can start using right away to expand your Boundaries Intelligence. You will learn:

  • Boundaries Intelligence in Four Practical Steps
  • Boundaries Myths & Truths
  • Four Little-Known Secrets About Boundaries
  • Why People Fail to Honor Their Boundaries
  • Why Boundaries Intelligence is a Vital Master Life Skill
  • What It Takes to Develop or Upgrade Your Boundaries Intelligence

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Inner Critic Freedom Free eCourse:
Liberation from Limiting Beliefs

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Your Inner Critic is the part of you that holds and enforces rules about how you and others are supposed to behave. It is that part of you that shames us and blames others when these rules are not obeyed. It beats you up when you don't live up to what it thinks you should do. In other words, your Inner Critic is the part of you that attacks both your self-esteem and the self-esteem of others... often in the name of making you and others better people

Is it time for you to stop being controlled by your Inner Critic? Is it time for you to learn how to liberate yourself from your limiting beliefs? Look over the Inner Critic Tyranny symptoms list below. The more symptoms you have, the more you are likely to benefit from my free Inner Critic Freedom introductory eCourse:

  • Harsh, shaming, self-defeating, disempowering inner messages that knock the wind out of your sails
  • Difficulty finding self-acceptance, feeling self-esteem, honoring your boundaries or making effective choices
  • Not trusting your inner knowing and intuitive guidance
  • Turning grains of truth you know about yourself into weapons of self-abuse
  • Being easily hurt or controlled by grains of truth that others use against you
  • Inflicting judgmental or hurtful messages on those you love or work with
  • Anger issues or lack of compassion

Did you know that all these symptoms are clues of an out-of-control Inner Critic? Are you ready to get the upper hand on your Inner Critic? The more questions you answered "yes" to, the more important the Inner Critic Freedom introductory eCourse may be for you.

Inner Critic Freedom is an essential life skill! This free e-course is chock-full of eye-opening information about this vitally important ability that most of us were never taught.

  • In Lesson One, you'll discover the Four Steps to Inner Critic Freedom.
  • In Lesson Two, you will explore the single greatest challenge people have in beginning to change their relationship with their Inner Critic.
  • In Lesson Three, you will find out the most important secret of all in dealing with your Inner Critic -- and the Inner Critic in other people.
  • In Lesson Four, you will learn two of the most common reasons why people fail to get the upper hand with their Inner Critic.
  • And Lesson Five reveals how you can become more successful than ever at creating Inner Critic Freedom for yourself.

David Gruder, Ph.D., grew up with a particularly vicious and self-defeating Inner Critic. He first began teaching Inner Critic Freedom courses in the early 1990s. Now you can benefit from all that his clients and workshop participants taught him during a 15+ year period about how to get the upper hand with their Inner Critic. Now you can succeed, and in far less time than it took him!

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Energy Psychology Free eCourse:
The Self-Development Innovation of the 21st Century

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Energy Psychology is a newly-emerging family of methods combining deep psychological wisdom with adaptations of accepted techniques used in allied health fields such as nursing (Therapeutic & Healing Touch), traditional Chinese medicine (activating acupoints without needles) and chiropractic medicine (muscle testing). These mind-body innovations may well provide the most broadly useful psychotherapy and self-help procedures of the 21st century.

Dr. Gruder served as the Founding President of the international non-profit Association for Comprehensive Energy Psychology. This, along with his reptuatation of a highly regarded psychologist and self-help expert, uniquely qualifies him to offer you the eye-opening journey into the world of Energy Psychology that this free eCourse provides.

You'll find this eCourse valuable whether you're new to Energy Psychology or a veteran, whether you are working on personal, relationship, leadership creativity or athletic development, and whether you're a helping professional, someone utilizing the services of a helping professional or a self-improvement "freelancer."

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