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Are you aware of a deep desire within you to be who you truly are in all parts of your life? We all have a deep thirst for personal freedom, inner wellbeing, and creative self-expression. How long ago did you water down or give up on this drive of yours? Or did you instead end up focusing primarily on this aspect of your life?
Are you aware of a deep inner desire to feel more fully and happily connected with others? Is that still alive within you? We all have a deep inner need to feel cared about and loved, and to care about and love others as well. We all have a deep thirst to co-create with others things that we cannot create entirely on our own. When did you decide you were going to have to settle for a pale reflection of this, or even give up on ever finding this at all? Or did you instead so deeply want this that you gave up aspects of yourself in your quest to get it?
Are you aware of a deep desire to have impact, to make a truly positive difference in the world? We all have this deep thirst as well. When did you decide you couldn't really have much impact in the world and that you were better off simply looking out for number one? Or did you instead become so focused on making a difference that you sacrificed your own wellbeing and your relationships with those you most care about in the process?
We all need to: !) Feel personal wellbeing; 2) Enjoy connection with others; and 3) Make a positive difference in the world. These are our Three Core Drives as human beings.
How deeply satisfied are you with:
- Your level of authenticity, of self-expression and self-care?
- The depth, durability, joyfulness and productivity of your connections with others?
- The extent to which you are making a positive difference in the world?
How aligned and coordinated are these Three Core Drives within you? How much is your daily life about: 1) Being your truest self; 2) Connecting and co-creating with others; 3) Making a positive difference on behalf of collective highest good?
Imagine what YOUR life would be like if you lived in fuller integrity with all three of your Core Drives. Imagine how your life would be if you could be authentic, connected and of service all at the same time. How fulfilled would you feel, day in and day out? Is that too much to ask for? Or, isn't that what life is supposed to be about?
Imagine what the world would be like if more of us lived in integrity with all three of our Core Drives for:
1) Personal Authenticity; 2) Connection with Others; 3) Being in Service to Collective Highest Good.
Isn't it wonderful when the same things that are good for you serve the world as well? Is this what you would like?
Have you ever considered that the reason so many people feel so unfulfilled today no matter how hard they try is because they have focused on only one or two of their Three Core Drives?
- How many people do you think have even given up on all three of their Core Drives, opting instead for living live primarily from Survival mode?
- What kind of world do you think is created by communities, businesses and countries that are full of these kinds of people? Welcome to today's world!
Imagine what the world would be like if more of us lived in integrity with all three of our Core Drives:
1) Personal Authenticity; 2) Connection with Others; 3) Being in Service to Collective Highest Good.
Imagine what YOUR life would be like if you lived in integrity with all three of your Core Drives?
Isn't it wonderful when the same things that are good for you serve the world as well? Is this what you would like?
The secret to aligning your Three Core Drives so they work with each other rather than compete against each other is developing 3D Integrity™. The same basic ingredients are needed for personal authenticity, relationship synergy and serving highest good. Developing these ingredients is how to harness the vast power of The Integrity Effect™.
3D Integrity™ is truly what personal, relationship and leadership development is supposed to be all about. In fact, this is what it needs to be about. For the sake of humanity and the planet as much as for the sake of personal fulfillment and relationship success.
Do you want to move into fuller expression and alignment among all three of your Core Drives?
- Learn more about the connection between Integrity and your Three Core Drives:
- Discover how we fall out of integrity with our Three Core Drives:
- Expand your vision of what the high side of each Core Drive looks like:
- More fully express the high side of each of your Three Core Drives:
- Balance and align your Three Core Drives throughout all aspects of your life:
- Learning how to do this is what 3D Living™ is all about.
Complete details about how to take charge of your development are in
The New IQ and The New IQ Integrity Makeover Workbook by Dr. David Gruder,
both of which will be released this coming January, 2008!
Want to know more? Click on the book cover draft further up the left frame.
Want a free sneek peek? Click on the "Free eCourses" button further up the left frame.
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